Terminally Ill Adults (End of Life) Bill

Lord Deben Excerpts

Friday 19th September 2025 Lords Chamber

[Lord Deben (Con)]

My Lords, the House will know that I have a moral position on this, but I am not going to talk about that.

This has been a most remarkable debate, and all of us from both sides have learned from what has been said. What has come out of it seems to be, first, that this is a very difficult issue. Secondly, although other countries have tried to do this, no one has produced an example of saying, “That’s where it works”. Instead they say, “That needs to be changed” or “There’s a problem”. Yet we are trying to debate this serious matter on a Private Member’s Bill that was inadequately dealt with in the Commons and has been criticised seriously by two of our expert committees.

What we are trying to do is momentous because we are seeking to depart from what has always been our attitude—apart from the question of capital punishment, which I fought against for many years—by empowering the state to kill. You can argue that, but let us realise just how serious it is.

I was an MP for 40 years and met wonderful people in both my urban and rural constituencies, but I also met people who felt that their old relations were a terrible burden and were spending money that would be much better left to them. I do not think we can ignore that fact, and I disagree with my friend, the noble Lord, Lord Dubs, when he suggested that somehow or other this was inconceivable. I put it to the House that not only is it conceivable but it is increasingly dangerous, because many families who have never seen any real money now see an aged relative who has a house worth £200,000 and more. There is a temptation for those people, whom I know and have met, to say to that person, “You really have a duty to save this money for your family. You know that Roger’s got a real problem and you can help him. This is what you should do”. No doctor is going to be able to analyse what has happened over a long time; the incident that we are discussing is very often at the end of a long period, when people come to that decision with that kind of pressure.

I am sorry that that is the case, and it is the case in a society that has far too many people about whom it has been suggested, because they do not work, are not worth anything. We must recreate the worth of all of us and the place that we all have in society. I am an individualist and a Tory, but I have to say that I see individuals as living in a society, and that means that we have responsibilities. It may be—I say this with due humility—that the contribution to society that someone in great pain may make is to protect vulnerable people by bearing that, in order that they will not be destroyed.